Moments that make it all worthwhile

We’re away at the moment, having a little family holiday and I wanted to share something close to my heart.

It’s been quite the experience for the boys – for all of us, really. There were definitely moments where we weren’t sure how it would go. A few wobbles, some uncertainty… but overall, all of the planning, prep, and nervous energy has been worth it.

It took a few days to settle, but they’re here now – really here – and they’re enjoying themselves. I couldn’t be prouder.

They’ve tried some new foods. My eldest, who has struggled for years with intense social anxiety, spoke to some other children. Just a simple thing for some, but a huge, brave leap for him in a completely unfamiliar place. I could cry just writing that.

They’ve even practiced a bit of Spanish!

And honestly? My heart could burst. There have been so many small wins – the kind that only we, as parents of neurodivergent children, really understand.

This is what it’s all about, isn’t it?

The slow steps. The gentle stretching. The moments where we see glimpses of what’s possible – not because we’ve forced it, but because we’ve nurtured it.

And here’s something I didn’t think I’d say: we’ve even had a bit of a break ourselves. Just a little breathing space. Some genuine connection and lovely family time together — and I don’t take that for granted one bit.

Years ago, we could barely leave the house. The world was so overwhelming for my PDAer. Everything felt too much.

And now… we’re here. We’re even considering an evening show or a day out. We’ll see how they feel and go with the flow. But the fact that it’s even on the table? That’s huge.

If you’re still in the thick of it, I just want to say this: don’t give up hope. These moments come. They really do.

Not through pushing – but through patience, presence, and love.

And when they do? You’ll feel it deep in your chest. Like a quiet celebration for all the hard days that brought you here.

With love from the sunshine.